Kat Fletcher

Lesbian Romance

Blog Hop Against Homo/Bi/Transphobia 2015

Today is the International Day Against Homophobia, Transphobia, and Biphobia.

Ok, so what? I mean. Really, this is kind of a Folk Song Army sort of thing for most of the people who read this. It’s really easy to grandstand against the hatemongers in the world and Goddess knows, we have more than enough of them and they all seem to be coming out from under their rocks due to the marriage case at the Supreme Court.

But I’d like remind everyone in my own community that we’re hardly guilt free on this subject. I was horrified this week to come across an argument in an online lesbian forum from someone frothing at the mouth with some weird bi-phobic agenda. (Well, to be honest, she threw in an anti-trans slur as well, so she’s an equal opportunity bigot I guess.) More or less, if you ever touched a guy or you even thought about it, you didn’t qualify for Real Lesbian™ status and were unwanted lest you sully the purity of her bodily fluids or some nonsense.

It’s not like this post is going to change that person’s opinion if she reads it, but here’s something those of us willing to listen can do: stop tolerating bigotry in our own communities. That’s exactly what happened. This particular forum has no tolerance for intra-community prejudice and her post was removed as soon as the mods got to it. That needs to start being the rule not the exception. Silence really does equal consent and the same is true in our own community regarding bi and transphobia as it is when a school allows students to freely toss around “that’s gay” in their hallways and classrooms.

Ok. Lecture over. Now comes the reward. If you care to leave a comment at the bottom of this post, you’ll be entered to win a free e-book copy of Seven Minutes in Heaven as well as a pre-release e-book of Our Demented Playdate when I finally finish it. I’ll be pulling winners at the end of the Bog Hop on the 24th.

Return to the main Blog Hope Page or visit the other members of the Blog Hop!


  1. I need to read more f/f romance, m/m is much more available. Thank you for your post on this bloghop and the opportunity to win books!

  2. The people who stand by, silent, are equally guilty with those who voice the bigotry in the first place.

    I’m also thoroughly tired of the notion that there is a “real lesbian.” What is a fake lesbian? Who gets to decide?

    Keep preaching tolerance. Someday, people will listen.

  3. Kassandra A.

    05/24/2015 at 2:13 am

    Never understood having such strict labels like “Real Lesbian” inside a community that has fought so hard for acceptance. We all have our very own, very unique sexualities. Each and every one of us. Imagine that? No two people like EXACTLY the same things………….hrmm, I kind of like that about people. Diversity makes the world a lot more colorful and interesting.

  4. Thanks for joining; nice post

    bn100candg at hotmail dot com

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